Wednesday, 14 March 2012


When becoming humiliated, remember the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم in Ta'if.
When becoming an orphan, remember the Prophet's age at six.

When being starved, remember the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم with stones on his stomach in the battle of Khandaq.
When losing a child, remember the Prophet's son, Ibrahim.

When experiencing less food in the house, remember the Prophet's days of poverty.
When being troubled by neighbours, remember the old woman who throw rubbish on the Prophet .

Tuesday, 6 March 2012

only few will remanin special to you till last sight

Everybody seems to be special at 1st sight,
but only few will remanin special to you till last sight..!!


Only the person who risks is truly free

To laugh is to risk appearing the fool. To weep is to risk being called sentimental. To reach out to another is to risk involvement. To expose feelings is to risk showing your true self. To place your ideas and your dreams before them is to risk being called naive. To love is to risk not being loved in return. To live is to risk dying. To hope is to risk despair, and to try is to risk failure.

But risks must be taken, because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing and becomes nothing. He [or she] may avoid suffering and sorrow, but he simply cannot learn and feel and change and grow and love and live. Chained by his certitudes, he is a slave, he's forfeited his freedom.

Only the person who risks is truly free."

Friday, 17 February 2012

Don't forget who you really are

Don't forget who you really are, a beautiful, amazing, gorgeous person, don't ever give up!! Some of life's best lessons are learned at the worst times, the trick is to enjoy the ups and have courage during the downs ♥

Saturday, 4 February 2012

Never hold head high with pride or ego

Never hold head high with pride or ego, even the winner of a gold medal gets his medal only when he puts his head down....

Friday, 3 February 2012

Negative attracts negative and positive attracts positive.

there are people in our lives that live in negativity and suck the life out of our good moods. "Self" defense may be required.
The best defense is loving your Self and building a strong positive self image and worldview. Negative attracts negative and positive attracts positive. We are an expression of Divinity Itself, and Divinity is our Source..

Thursday, 2 February 2012

The past is where you learned the lesson

The past is where you learned the lesson
The future is where you apply the lesson.

Don't give up in the middle...

Wednesday, 1 February 2012

Few People Are Found Only SOMETIMES..:)

SOMETIMES Sorry Means - It's Not My Fault, It's Yours, Accept It, It Would Make Me Feel Better...

SOMETIMES Good Night Means - Don't keep The Phone Stupid, I Want To Talk More..

SOMETIMES Take Care Means - Me Not Well And Need To Be Cared For By You..

SOMETIMES Disconnecting a Call Means - Call Me Back, I Want You To Persuade Me With Something Special...

SOMETIMES Smile Means More Than Tears..

SOMETIMES Tears Are More Satisfying Than Smile..

There Are Very Few People Who Understand This Exceptionalities And These Few People Are Found Only SOMETIMES..:)

Monday, 30 January 2012

No one can change the way you are

No one can change the way you are, no one can change the way you feel
No one can change the way you think, You are who you are and that is beautiful.
You are unique in every possible way, you are have respect for everyone else because they are as unique and special as you. Learn from each other but never spect no one to change for you..

Sunday, 29 January 2012

distance never seprates two heart

distance never seprates...
two heart that really cares,
for our memories span the miles...
and in seconds we are there...

two words can save the relation....!

People say that there's no sorry's and thanks in a friendship or in a relationship

But actually these two words can save the relation....!

Friday, 27 January 2012

If someone does not smile at you

If someone does not smile at you, be generous and offer your own smile...
Nobody needs a smile more than the one who cannot smile to others..."♥

Monday, 23 January 2012

A Loyal one is better than a Royal one !!

Don't get attracted to people who have achieved great heights, love those who hold you when "You" fall from the heights..
A Loyal one is better than a Royal one !!

Friday, 20 January 2012

Friendship is not about who you've known the longest..

Friendship is not about who you've known the longest. It's about who walked into your life, said "I'm here for you" and proved it. ♥!!

Friendship is not about who you've known the longest..

Friendship is not about who you've known the longest. It's about who walked into your life, said "I'm here for you" and proved it. ♥!!

Thursday, 19 January 2012

A short walk is so Difficult..

A short walk is so Difficult, when no one walks with u.
But a long Journey is just like a few steps 
when u walk with someone who loves & cares for u. ♥

Wednesday, 18 January 2012

The greatest pain in life is not to die, but to be ignored.

The greatest pain in life is not to die, but to be ignored.
To lose the person you love so much to another who doesn't care at all.
To have someone you care so about so much throw a party...
and not tell you about it.
When your favorite person on earth neglects to invite you to his graduation.
To have people think that you don't care.

The greatest pain in life, is not to die, but to be forgotten.
To be left in the dust after another's great achievement.
To never get a call from a friend, just saying "hi".
When you show someone your innermost thoughts and they laugh in your face.
For friends to always be too busy to console you when you need someone to lift your spirits.
When it seems like the only person who cares about you, is you.

Life is full of pain, but does it ever get better?
Will people ever care about each other, and make time for those who are in need?
Each of us has a part to play in this great show we call life.
Each of us has a duty to mankind to tell our friends we love them.
If you do not care about your friends you will not be punished.
You will simply be ignored... forgotten... as you have done to others.

Monday, 16 January 2012

If you love someone

Prophet Muhammad (saw) said: If you love someone, don't
quarrel with him and don't annoy him. Don't ask others about him,
for the one you ask might be his enemy and thus tell you things about him that aren't true nd thus breaks you apart"

Nobody sees my weaknesses, nobody sees my tears

Nobody sees my weaknesses, nobody sees my tears, except Allah !

When I'm sad and I want a shoulder to cry on, nobody seems to notice my hidden tears or to support me but Allah !

If I do wrong, people will seldom forgive and forget easily. Only Allah, if I just ask Him, forgives me.

Pleasing a human is most dificult. Pleasing Allah is the easiest.

People sometimes punish me for the mistakes I have not done. Allah ignores & excuses the ones that I did.

That's ALLAH !

The Greatest, The Allmighty,

The Most Beneficent,

The Most Merciful..

Sunday, 15 January 2012

Distance never separates any relation

“Distance never separates any relation &
closeness never builds any relation.
If feelings are True & Honest,
Then relations will always remain there ”

Saturday, 14 January 2012

Dil To Bachcha Hai-Ishqiya

Life have never promised u anything

Life have never promised u anything nor have god.,But people did,.
Some said they will never leave u;lie..
Some said they will luv u till death;lie..
Some said u are the most precious thing in their lyf;lie..
Life is made of such sweet lies..!
In the end all that matters is how u faced the time when u finally realized those were just lies ..V may ask.."wouldnt lyf be much better if these lies were never told?"
But the fact ,is that the times u lived on those big lies were the best times of ur life..!!

Mere Sawal aur Quran Shareef Ke Jawab

Maine kaha Main bahut gunaahgar hoon....

Jawab mila ....Allah ki Rahmat se mayus na ho Allah sab gunaah bakhsh dega

( Surat Az-Zumar..verse 53)

Maine kaha Mere Dil ko sukoon nahi hai?...

(Jawab mila...Beshak Allah ki yaad se hi Dilo ko itminaan(sukoon) hai

( Surat Ar-Ra'd ...verse 28)

Maine kaha Main bahut akela hoon ..

Jawab mila....Beshak hum rag-e-jaan se bhi zyada qareeb hain

( Surat Qaf ...verse 16)

Maine kaha Mujhe koi yaad nahi karta...

Jawab mila...Tum mujhe yaad karo main tumhain yaad karunga

(Surat Al-Baqarah... verse 152)

Maine kaha Meri raahon mein bahut pareshaaniya hain..

Jawab mila ...Jo Allah se darta hai Allah uski nijaat ki surat nikal deta hai

(Surat At-Talaaq... verse 2)

Maine kaha mere bahut se adhurey khawab hain..

Jawab mila ...Mujhse Dua karo main Qubul karunga

( Surat Ghafir... verse 60)

Friday, 13 January 2012

Letting go doesn’t mean we don’t care

Letting go doesn’t mean we don’t care.
Letting go doesn’t mean we shut down.
Letting go means we stop trying to force outcomes and make people behave.
It means we give up resistance to the way things are, for the moment.
It means we stop trying to do the impossible–
controlling that which we cannot–
and instead, focus on what is possible–
which usually means taking care of ourselves.
And we do this in gentleness, kindness,
and love, as much as possible.

Path to true happiness

what is the path to true happiness? How far must you go
Find happiness?

You need not go very far at all. For happiness is always
Inside you, ready whenever you are.

No object, no person, no circumstance will make you happy.
You are always happy when you decide to be.

The good things in life do not cause happiness. It is
Precisely the other way around.

Allow happiness to flow out from you, and the good things in
Life will surround you and fill your world. Choose to be
Happy, with no conditions imposed upon that happiness, and
You'll create the ideal conditions for your life.

Happiness is a beautiful gift you can give yourself no
Matter what. Give it freely and it will change your world.

Small Hands...:)

Once a boy went to a shop with his mother.
The shop keeper looked at the small cute child and showed him a bottle with sweets and said,
Dear Child u can take the sweets. But the child didnt take.
The shop keeper was surprised.. he is such a small child and why is he not taking the sweets from the bottle.Again he said to take the sweets. Now the mother also heard that and said, 'Take the sweets dear. '' Yet he didnt take.
The shopkeeper seeing the child not taking the sweets he himself took the sweets and gave itto the child.The child was happy to get two hands full of sweets.
While returning home the Mother asked the child
'Why didnt you take the sweets when the shop keeper told you to take?'
Can you guess the response:
The child replies Mom: my hands are very small and if I take the sweets.I can only take few. But now you see when uncle gave with his big many more sweets I got ...

When we take we may get little
but when God The Almighty gives He gives us more beyond our expectations more than what we can hold.

Its upto us...!

Who should be blamed when a leaf falls from a tree...???
Is it the wind that blew it away...?
Or the tree that let it go...?
Or is it the leaf, who grew tired holding on...???
Life unfolds a lot of misunderstandings everyday...!
Its upto Us to solve them
Live with them...!

Life has a way of unfolding at its own pace.

Life has a way of unfolding at its own pace. We just have to learn to be patient and accept that we can't have everything we want immediately.

How To Love Yourself ♥

Criticism never changes a thing. Refuse to criticize yourself. Accept yourself exactly as you are. Everybody changes. When you criticize yourself, your changes are negative. When you approve of yourself, your changes are positive.

Let the past go. You did the best you could at the time with the understanding, awareness, and knowledge that you had. Now you are growing and changing, and you will live life differently.

Stop terrorizing yourself with your thoughts. It’s a dreadful way to live. Find a mental image that gives you pleasure, and immediately switch your scary thought to a pleasure thought.

Be gentle with yourself. Be kind to yourself. Be patient with yourself as you learn the new ways of thinking. Treat yourself as you would someone you really loved.

Self-hatred is only hating your own thoughts. Don’t hate yourself for having the thoughts. Gently change your thoughts.

Criticism breaks down the inner spirit. Praise builds it up. Praise yourself as much as you can. Tell yourself how well you are doing with every little thing.

Find ways to support yourself. Reach out to friends and allow them to help you. It is being strong to ask for help when you need it.

Acknowledge that you created them to fulfill a need. Now you are finding new, positive ways to fulfill those needs. So lovingly release the old negative patterns.

Learn about nutrition. What kind of fuel does your body need in order to have optimum energy and vitality? Learn about exercise. What kind of exercise do you enjoy? Cherish and revere the temple you live in.

Look into your eyes often. Express this growing sense of love you have for yourself. Forgive yourself while looking into the mirror. Talk to your parents while looking into the mirror. Forgive them, too. At least once a day, say “I love you, I really love you!”

Don’t wait until you get well, or lose the weight, or get the new job, or find the new relationship. Begin now—-and do the best you can.

Remember the things that gave you joy as a child. Incorporate them into your life now. Find a way to have fun with everything you do. Let yourself express the joy of living. Smile. Laugh. Rejoice, and the Universe rejoices with you!

Thursday, 12 January 2012

You have to believe in yourself..

You have to believe in yourself..because when everybody around you is telling negative things, you are gonna have to be the one to pick yourself up..

To be beautiful means you need to be yourself.

To be beautiful means you need to be yourself.
You don't need to be accepted by others.
You need to accept yourself. ♥

Sometimes Allah breaks your spirit to save your souls

Sometimes, HE breaks our heart to make us whole.
Sometimes, Allah allows pain so we can be stronger.
Sometimes, Allah sends us failure so we can be humble.
Sometimes, Allah allows illness so we can take better care of ourselves.
Sometimes, Allah takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything HE gave us..
Make plans but understand that we live by Allah's grace.

Wednesday, 11 January 2012

ALLAH created you and i

ALLAH created you and i to produce light in a dark world...
No matter how small we are or what color we might be...
Like a little candle, we all can produce the same amount of light...
It is always up to us, either to get lost in darkness... Or sparkle and show light to others.....

Forgiving others is the best attitude to take

A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game.

The teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic bag containing a few potatoes.

Each potato will be given a name of a person that the child hates,

So the number of potatoes that a child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number of people he/she hates.

So when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with the name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some 3 while some up to 5 potatoes. The teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes in the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week.

Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides, those having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1 week, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended....

The teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes with you for 1 week?". The children let out their frustrations and started complaining of the trouble that they had to go through having to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go.

Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game. The teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry your hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred will contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever you go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just 1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred in your heart for your lifetime???"

Moral of the story: Throw away any hatred for anyone from your heart so that you will not carry sins for a lifetime.

Clean Your Mother’s Hands

One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in a big company. He passed the first interview, the director did the last interview, made the last decision. The director discovered from the CV that the youth’s academic achievements were excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research, never had a year when he did not score.
The director asked, “Did you obtain any scholarships in school?” the youth answered “none”. The director asked, ” Was it your father who paid for your school fees?” The youth answered, “My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my mother who paid for my school fees.
The director asked, ” Where did your mother work?” The youth answered, “My mother worked as clothes cleaner. The director requested the youth to show his hands. The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect. The director asked, ” Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?” The youth answered, “Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books. Furthermore, my mother can wash clothes faster than me.
The director said, “I have a request. When you go back today, go and clean your mother’s hands, and then see me tomorrow morning.”
The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was high. When he went back, he happily requested his mother to let him clean her hands. His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to the kid.
The youth cleaned his mother’s hands slowly. His tear fell as he did that. It was the first time he noticed that his mother’s hands were so wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in her hands. Some bruises were so painful that his mother shivered when they were cleaned with water. This was the first time the youth realized that it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable him to pay the school fee. The bruises in the mother’s hands were the price that the mother had to pay for his graduation, academic excellence and his future.
After finishing the cleaning of his mother hands, the youth quietly washed all the remaining clothes for his mother. That night, mother and son talked for a very long time.
Next morning, the youth went to the director’s office. The Director noticed the tears in the youth’s eyes, asked: ” Can you tell me what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?” The youth answered, ” I cleaned my mother’s hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes’
The Director asked, ” please tell me your feelings.”
The youth said, Number 1, I know now what is appreciation. Without my mother, there would not the successful me today. Number 2, by working together and helping my mother, only I now realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done. Number 3, I have come to appreciate the importance and value of family relationship.
The director said, ” This is what I am looking for to be my manager. I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the sufferings of others to get things done, and a person who would not put money as his only goal in life. You are hired.
Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates. Every employee worked diligently and as a team. The company’s performance improved tremendously.

ek mein aur ek tu

Every day, every moment-life unfolds various lessons for us

Every day, every moment-life unfolds various lessons for us to learn. More often, we fail to recognise those moments and lose the chance to grow. Yet again, somehow, we embrace and LIVE one special DAY which make us realise that we're growing!
*we grow without realisation*

Tuesday, 10 January 2012

The best things in life..

The best things in life aren't things, they're moments, feelings, lessons, faith, emotions, discoveries, and truths.....♥


The most selfish one letter word "I"... Avoid it

The most satisfying two-letter word "WE"... Use it

The most poisonous three-letter word "EGO"... Kill it

The most used four-letter word "LOVE"... Value it

The most pleasing five-letter word "SMILE"... Keep it

The fastest spreading six-letter word "RUMOUR"... Ignore it

The hardest working seven-letter word "SUCCESS"... Achieve it

The most enviable eight-letter word "JEALOUSY"... Distance it

The most powerful nine-letter word "KNOWLEDGE"... Acquire it

What Is HOPE ?

Hope is dreaming of tomorrow 
 Hope is simmering under sorrow
        Hope is sparkles when tears in our eyes
Hope is a beautiful thing & beautiful things never dies